Solo travel is often associated with being confident, extroverted and sociable. But solo travelling as an introvert can be an incredible experience.
This year I read The Power Of Quiet by Susan Cain. It completely change my perspective on being an introvert. It also made me think a lot about the experience of solo travelling as an introvert.
The word is so commonly associated with the negative connotations. However, after reflecting and reading the book I can I proudly say that my introversion is a strength.
I almost exclusively travel solo. When I tell people this, one of their first reactions is that they are not confident enough to do that.
However, if you think that travelling solo is something only extroverted people do, think again. Here are some reasons why
solo travelling as an introvert is the ultimate combination.
You Don’t Have To Speak To People.
I’m not a rude person, I LOVE deep and honest conversations, but small talk drains me. When solo travelling as an introvert, particularly in a country where you don’t speak the language, you tend to speak considerably less. I can walk for hours without speaking to anyone. I either have music playing or just take in the sights and sounds around me. The only real conversations I have whilst travelling solo are to order food, buy things or check in and out of hotels. While this may sound lonely, for the introvert in me, it’s refreshing bliss.
You Control Your Day.
As an introvert, finding activities that recharge your soul is essential. Whether you’ve got a ton of energy or you’re in need of a recluse day, solo travel means that you’re completely in control. Be it lying on the beach, spending six hours reading a book or walking 12 miles around the city, it’s your decision how you spend your day.
You Can Seek Out The Hidden Spots.
Sometimes when travelling with an group, you often hop from landmark to landmark. Of course you want to see these. But one of the best things about solo travelling as an introvert, is that you can find some hidden gems too. Either research ‘hidden spots’ before you leave or just head out for the day and stumble upon what you can find. When you arrive at a busy destination, walk in the opposite direction from the crowds for your best chance of finding a quiet spot where you can sit.
You Really See Where You Are.
While Western culture typically celebrates extroversion and encourages introverts to ‘come out their shells’, this isn’t the case globally. While travelling in a group, you may be at risk of getting caught up in group noise and excitement. In turn, you will observe less of the world around you. Travelling solo allows you to be more present in your destination, and really experience the country you visit.
You Can Share Your Adventure Creatively
As explained by Susan Cain, the power of introverts is often in their creative minds. We see the world differently and express ourselves in creative ways. Some of the best content creators on Instagram and travel blogs have openly embraced their introversion. So not only can solo travel as an introvert bring joy to you, but you can spread that joy with others too.
You Get The Best Of Both Worlds.
Extroverts thrive from being around others and introverts are the opposite. However, solo travel does not mean being alone the whole time. There are plenty of opportunities to meet friendly, like- minded and welcoming people to socialise with when you feel up to it. And the best part is, you don’t have to commit to group activities every night of your trip – you can just pick when suits you and when doesn’t!
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